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Do you see me as human?
Scrolling through The Times this morning, there was video of a LGBTQ individual asking Trump one poignant question: “Do you see me as...
glossectomygirl
Oct 20, 20242 min read
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FRAGILE.
In the nearly three years since I fought for my life and lost my natural voice, I feel like I’ve come a long way. I work hard to frame...
glossectomygirl
Oct 11, 20242 min read
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Glossy goes to Denver - NRG oncology 2024
I am incredibly honored to have taken part in the NRG oncology 2024 summer meeting. The head and neck oncologists here are not only...
glossectomygirl
Jul 26, 20241 min read
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Travel tips + tricks
Traveling as a lary/glossy definitely is a different experience. I am a travel light kinda gal and it has increased the load, but I've...
glossectomygirl
Apr 20, 20244 min read
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Glossy Girl - a creation story -
Today is April 1 and we are kicking off Head and Neck Cancer Awareness Month. So i thought it fitting to share my 'creation story' with...
glossectomygirl
Apr 1, 20247 min read
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The Plan
I have always focused on my life plan. I’m a list maker. At age 8 I wanted to be an architect and though this sometimes fluctuated...
glossectomygirl
Mar 20, 20243 min read
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Me, the Obturator and the EL.*
I have grown accustom to not speaking. My thumbs tire of tapping. My fingers flimsy at the end of the day. Sloppy spelling betrays my...
glossectomygirl
Oct 28, 20231 min read
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non-verbal, non-speaking, dysphasia-aphasia-dysphagia; augmentative alternative communication (AAC),
speech generating device, text-to-talk, AI synthesized voice; disabled, handicapped, impaired; HAVE cancer, HAD cancer, cancer free,...
glossectomygirl
Aug 29, 20238 min read
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Costa Rica
There was this moment. It seemed like immunizations were the answer. We were feeling almost normal again, starting to venture to...
glossectomygirl
Apr 21, 20232 min read
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Lymphatic (massage) Touch demonstration
just a quick disclaimer that i AM NOT A TRAINED PROFESSIONAL. this routine was designed for me by a SLP who is a specialist in Lymphatic...
glossectomygirl
Mar 9, 20231 min read
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Liquid Diet on the Go
*only read if you are interested in liquid diets, otherwise you will be bored to tears...okay, you might be anyway but at least you were...
glossectomygirl
Jan 5, 20232 min read
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It's a Wonderful Life...
It was a year of loss. we lost my dad, my tongue, my larynx, the girls lost some of their youth, my mom lost more of herself...
glossectomygirl
Dec 24, 20223 min read
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The day my tongue exploded.
I heard a piece on NPR about a woman Hannah Palin, whose mom had a massive stroke. After months of hospitalization the mom emerged a...
glossectomygirl
Nov 8, 20223 min read
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Speaking of...
So why can't i speak and how do i communicate? This is an excellent question. Like most people, i didn't pay much attention to the...
glossectomygirl
Oct 16, 20225 min read
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Me and the Phone
The rotary phone sat in our apartment kitchen on a low bookshelf. I would stand there with the yellow pages to the side of it, anxiety...
glossectomygirl
Aug 24, 20223 min read
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I Am The Walrus
Yesterday I met someone new. I had given them a heads up that i spoke via type to text. As soon as he greeted me he spoke a little...
glossectomygirl
Aug 1, 20222 min read
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GIFT of slow.
Cancer is diabolical, sinister, evil. Yet... I find myself thinking about the gifts it has given me. It's twisted, i know. I mean it has...
glossectomygirl
Jul 7, 20222 min read
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5 months : 1 month : 2 days
now august (reference: my before) WHOOP! I'm 5 months post surgery, 1 month post radiation, and 2 days from moving home! After surgery my...
glossectomygirl
May 30, 20223 min read
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Going Home
This phase of our journey is coming to a close. We have been in San Francisco for 5 months, it went fast and slow. We built a little life...
glossectomygirl
May 18, 20222 min read
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The Stockdale Paradox
https://medicine.yale.edu/media-player/ed-yong-normal-led-to-this-on-two-years-of-covering-the-pandemic/?tab=info&mibextid=ATveJy A...
glossectomygirl
May 4, 20222 min read
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